Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Marimba or Zipp disc wheel

As a Mom, we all make tough choices and sacrifices for our kids.  I confess, being a triathlete and Mom can wreak havoc when my selfish triathlete side wants to purchase a decent wetsuit (current one has holes, but well-patched) over purchasing new drum sticks for my son or a Yankee candle for my daughter's latest school fundraiser.

Recently, I was informed of a "great deal" on a Zipp disc wheel- for a limited time only.  Many thoughts raced through my head at this potential opportunity to purchase this "great deal." 

I thought of the pros- faster bike split, "limited time only" price, intimidate the competition, and- did I mention- faster bike split.

I thought of the cons-great price but still dang expensive, will have to work more to pay off, no disc wheels in Kona, and I need (or want) other tri gear such as wetsuit, aero helmet and some nice bike shoes.

During my days of stewing over what I should do, it was brought to my attention that my son's percussion skills would benefit greatly with a marimba in the house. My son is a developing musician who actively participates in marching band, New World Youth orchestra, ISSMA, and IPA.  Like any athlete, a musician must practice and train regularly to improve and succeed. The tools needed to become a good musician are not cheap.  So... I was faced with a dilemma- disc wheel for me or marimba for child.

My selfish, triathlete side really wanted this disc wheel.  I thought to myself, "I work my tail off daily to be a better athlete- why not facilitate the process by purchasing this extra bit of speed." But, my motherly side swiftly kicks me in the butt and reminds me that my hobby should not take priority over my kids' basic needs- food, shelter, and extracurricular activity expenses.  The fantasy of my child pursuing his passion and making a productive career in music trumps any piece of tri gear- no matter how great it is.

I thought about my Dad and the years of spending his weekends, early mornings and evenings taking me to and from swim practice.  I thought about the many weekends my Dad sat in the bleachers to watch my full-day swim meets.  We, as parents, make sacrifices because we adore our kids so much. While I love triathlon and all the great training and competition that it encompasses, the best joy I get in life is being a Mom, who enjoys triathlon on the side.

 Reid and my new triathlon purchase:  a beautiful marimba!!!



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